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Neil Miller July 14, 2014 Filed Under: Daily Living, Into India, On the Job

How to Avoid Dying in India

Most people are not prepared for India.

No amount of reading, interviewing, or cultural training can really get you ready for working and living in India.

If you choose to dive in deeply, you will see the world from a brand new perspective. You will gain knowledge and experiences you could never get from any other place.

But you are also subject to feeling like you are just running from one “emergency” to another, constantly putting out fires. You may start to become entangled in the daily power struggles at work, or amongst your househelp. You may feel like most of your job has become apologizing for offending someone and can’t figure out why everyone seems so sensitive.

You could use some help. Not a solution for every problem, but a way to make sense of it all. An introduction to the new rules of this foreign land.

Enter How to Avoid Dying in India.

[Read more…]

Neil Miller July 7, 2014 Filed Under: Team Management

4 Things Indians Learned in University that Might Drive you Crazy

Indian University

What did you learn from your university?

I mean really.

While your alumni association would like you to believe you learned exclusive knowledge that set you up for success, it’s likely you’ve forgotten most of that stuff.

What you did learn was how to build a network, how to collaborate on projects, and how to convince a professor to throw out the results of a failed test.

These are the skills that have stick with you and continue to shape who you are today.

Indian universities are no different. They teach technical skills, but the ‘other’ skills are the ones that tend to stick more. Some of these skills are great for the business world, such as how to churn out a group project overnight. Others might cause you to pull your hair out. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 30, 2014 Filed Under: Hinduism

6 Things Hindus Do, and which ones you can do too!

Rajasthani Woman

Paula Ray via Flickr

To close up this series of articles about Hinduism, we’ll turn our focus to the second most important component of religion for Hinduism – Hindu practices and behaviors.

Religious behaviors are actions that have no intrinsic meaning,  but rather ascribed meaning. For example, walking around with a white cap on your head has no meaning on its own. However, when you are in a Muslim neighborhood, it suddenly has a lot of meaning. Similarly, taking a sip of wine doesn’t mean much on its own, but it carries a lot of meaning in the context of a Catholic church.

In Hinduism, behaviors are the second most important component (after community and before beliefs). Doing the right thing is more important than believing the right thing, because doing a particular action shows you are part of a particular group.

For example, in a Hindu home, the mother is more concerned that her son visits a temple (behavior) than that he believes in the power of that deity. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 23, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Hinduism

5 Beliefs Most Hindus Would Agree With

Brightly colored Hindu Temples

You should approach this article with skepticism.

As we have said, while beliefs are an important component of religion, they are not the most important part about being a Hindu. A Hindu can reject nearly all the usual teachings of Hinduism and still confidently call herself a Hindu if she belongs to a Hindu community and performs the normal behaviors.

So, what do Hindus believe?

Hindu beliefs can be extremely diverse. Since Hinduism was formed as an amalgamation of several belief systems and not from one common source, it is very hard to identify some universal beliefs that apply to most Hindus.

So, you should cautiously approach anyone who says, “This is what Hindus believe.”

Instead of trying to give a full systematic theology for Hinduism (which doesn’t exist), I’ve pulled out five things that most Hindus will incorporate into their belief systems, as well as how they talk and act. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 16, 2014 Filed Under: #GreyIsWhite, #See1See100, Hinduism

The Most Important Term From Hinduism You Will Never Talk About

Dharma

“Hinduism is a way of life, not a religion.”

You will hear this phrase over and over as you learn about Hinduism. It is a very true statement, but what does “way of life” mean? Why does Hinduism get to claim to be outside of “religion”?  What makes it so different?

It really comes down to one word. One untranslatable word that most Hindus don’t regularly talk about, but creates the entire structure for their life and society.

 

The most important term you’ve never heard

Dharma comes from the root word dhr that can be translated as “uphold” or “sustain”, according to Indologist PV Kane (quoted in Dayanand Bharati’s Understanding Hinduism). In many ways, the concepts of dharma have been the “supports” for Hindu (and Indian) society for a long time. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 9, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Hinduism

Why you will probably stop learning about Hinduism

Cave Temple in India

 

It is a great idea on your part.

You are working with Indians or moving to India, and you want to be prepared. You want to be sensitive. So you start learning about the culture and decide you need to know something about Hinduism. “What is Hinduism?” you ask yourself.

You get online and browse around some websites. You order a book that looks good. Maybe you get really ambitious and try to read the Bhagavad Gita.

You are trying to dip your toe into the shallow end of the pool just to get a feel for what Hinduism is, and how learning about it will help you live and work better with India.

However, if you are like most of us, you will abandon this pretty quickly for one or more reasons:

 

  1. The content is way too philosophical. It tries to explain the difference between Vedanta and Mimamsa in the second chapter. It gets too deep too fast, and there is no frame of reference.
  2. The content is overly spiritualized. Everything seems to be about seeking the inner god in you, being a good person, etc. It strikes you more as “new age” than a multi-millennia religion.
  3. The content isn’t consistent. If you are comparing what you read from different sources, you notice large gaps and contradictory statements that make no sense when put together.
  4. It doesn’t match up with what you observe and experience in everyday life. The whole reason you wanted to learn what is Hinduism in the first place is to gain an insight into working with Hindus. However, more than 90% of what you learned is useless in conversation and understanding daily life.

There ends your short journey into learning about Hinduism.

 

I don’t claim to be an expert on Hinduism, but I think we are approaching it the wrong way. Trying to learn abstractly about Hinduism and then apply those lessons onto individuals will not help you. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 5, 2014 Filed Under: Mark Twain

Mark Twain on India: Why Fair Skin is Ugly

One of the constant oddities of living in India is the fair skin obsession. Despite the efforts of many campaigns, there seems to be no end to the tight hold of the message that fair skin = beauty.

The odd thing is not that the Indian media prefers one type of skin tone; it’s that it is the opposite skin tone I grew up associating with beauty. As much as Indian mothers don’t want their daughters out in the sun too much, people across the ocean are willingly laying in coffin-like structures to get rid of their fairness and make their skin look “healthy”.

But this strangeness is not a modern phenomenon. Let’s return back to hearing Mark Twain on India for his insights into comparing colors in India and abroad. This excerpt comes from when he was attending the coronation of a prince in Rajasthan. I’ve added bold text to my favorite quotes. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 2, 2014 Filed Under: #ChaosBeatsLogic, #PowerPlays, #ThinSkinned, Communication

The Golden Rule for Choosing the Best Forms of Business Communication in India

Woman on the phone

You know that feeling you get when your inbox gets to zero?

You feel like you really accomplished something. Like you are on top of your game. Like you really earned your money today.

 

In India, that feeling can be deceptive.

You can have an empty inbox, but never do any actual business. You can reply to all your messages and SMSs, but never reach any of your targets. You can send a hundred emails a day, but never be any closer to your goal.

Why?

The problem might lie in choosing the wrong forms of business communication in India.

 

When it comes to communicating with India, there is one Golden Rule you must always remember: [Read more…]

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