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Neil Miller December 22, 2014 Filed Under: #PowerPlays, #See1See100, Parent Leadership

Is there a Good Side to Having a Parent Leader?

Good Parent Leader

Understanding the idea of Parent Leadership, or paternalistic leadership, is important if you work in India or many other Asian countries, but you might still be on the fence about it. Leading as if you were a father or mother might sound rather sticky or messy, especially when you think about your own family.

However, Parent Leadership is a legitimate leadership style, and instead of judging if the style itself is bad or good, you should look at good and bad examples of people who use it.

In my time in India, I’ve interacted with many leaders who naturally use this style. Some are very inspiring, like the one who made it a point to visit the housewarming ceremony of a junior employee. Others are extremely dysfunctional, like the one who refused to believe anyone else could do a better job than him at any business function.

In the next two articles, I will offer a picture of the best and worst sides of Parent Leadership. First, we’ll look at the best-case scenario to see the enormous potential this style holds. Next, we’ll look at a worst-case scenario to show just how bad things can get. [Read more…]

Neil Miller December 15, 2014 Filed Under: #See1See100, Into India

Indian Naming Conventions

Being able to identify someone’s primary community is an awesome skill to have in India. But sometimes just figuring what name to call them is an even greater feat.

Naming Conventions 

 

Indian Naming Conventions

Names are complicated in India primarily because there are so many Indias to deal with. So much so that the British Government even issued this official naming practice guide with a lengthy section on India. Here are just a few of the things that go into an Indian name. [Read more…]

Neil Miller October 28, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #PowerPlays, #See1See100, #ThinSkinned, #TimeIsEternal, On the Job

34 Tips for Training in India

Young Man in Session

At home, you’re a pro. You are the subject matter expert, the go-to person. You regularly run trainings for your colleagues, or maybe you are a professional trainer. You get the room warmed up quickly, you are funny, you flow, you delight the audience, and you always get great feedback.

But now you are training in India for the first time. No one laughs at your jokes. Everything feels tense. Some participants seem combative. No one is getting the concepts. Your ‘flow’ never seems to show up.

It’s a trainer’s worst nightmare. You covered the material, but you suspect that everyone might hate you, and you are pretty sure the training didn’t make a difference. You feel like the whole day (and maybe the whole trip) was a waste.

 

34 Tips for Training in India

Whether it’s technical training, updating your India office on new tax laws, or even soft skills, there are certain ways you need to adapt your training style. Here are 34 tips I’ve compiled about how to make the most out of your training in India. [Read more…]

Neil Miller September 2, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #See1See100, Into India

What you didn’t know about Arranged Marriages in India

Arranged Marriages

Even the term alone feels offensive to you. Oppressive. Undemocratic. Backwards.

Arranged marriages.

If you come from a country that values autonomy above everything else, it is unthinkable. Decades of media and Disney have drilled into us the evils of letting someone else make such an important choice for you.

So why do 65% of young Indians still prefer to have their parents arrange their marriages?

Why are 90% of all marriages in India still arranged?

Why have I already started to think about ‘alliances’ for my kids?

Maybe there is something we are missing… [Read more…]

Neil Miller August 27, 2014 Filed Under: #PowerPlays, #See1See100, #ThinSkinned, On the Job

10 Steps to Removing Items from your To-do List in India

To Do List

I’m a list guy. I have 18 separate lists where I keep track of things to get done for different areas of my life. I have no faith that my brain will remember more than 3 things at a time, so everything else goes on a list. There is nothing that epitomizes a satisfying workday for me more than crossing off dozens of tasks.

However, my approach to lists has often gotten me in trouble in India.

 

How lists can fail you in India

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Neil Miller June 16, 2014 Filed Under: #GreyIsWhite, #See1See100, Hinduism

The Most Important Term From Hinduism You Will Never Talk About

Dharma

“Hinduism is a way of life, not a religion.”

You will hear this phrase over and over as you learn about Hinduism. It is a very true statement, but what does “way of life” mean? Why does Hinduism get to claim to be outside of “religion”?  What makes it so different?

It really comes down to one word. One untranslatable word that most Hindus don’t regularly talk about, but creates the entire structure for their life and society.

 

The most important term you’ve never heard

Dharma comes from the root word dhr that can be translated as “uphold” or “sustain”, according to Indologist PV Kane (quoted in Dayanand Bharati’s Understanding Hinduism). In many ways, the concepts of dharma have been the “supports” for Hindu (and Indian) society for a long time. [Read more…]

Neil Miller May 8, 2014 Filed Under: #ChaosBeatsLogic, #PowerPlays, #See1See100, #ThinSkinned, #TimeIsEternal, On the Job

Don’t waste your short-term trip to India!

short term trip to india

 

About the time you start packing your bags for your trip to India, the question dawns on you.

What am I doing?

Maybe it’s clear for you. You are training some colleagues. You are finding some suppliers. You are volunteering. You are choosing a vendor. You are attending a conference. (Do make sure you have the right visa for each of these!)

However, when you return and start unpacking your bags, you might suddenly realize the trip wasn’t as obviously successful as you thought it was. No one seems to be doing the things you trained them on. No one is replying to your repeated emails. All the processes you put in place seem to be falling apart.

You are left with a few pictures and a sinking feeling in your stomach that the trip was wasted. [Read more…]

Neil Miller April 16, 2014 Filed Under: #See1See100, On the Job

Publicity and PR Issues in India

PR and Publicity India Prince Roy

Here’s a real story with some fictionalized details:

Two North Americans (Ryan and Joel) had come to India to establish some connections for their new NGO/non-profit (FreshMedics) that markets medical device innovations for rural villages. They had some large financial partners waiting in the background, but wanted to time any announcements of public support with the launch of the product and the plan. Their partners understood this, but were eager to be on the forefront of the launch.

On this trip to India, they were looking to make contacts and meet some manufacturing partners. Knowing the importance of relationships in India, they took advantage of any opportunity they had.

They were introduced to a man named Ganesh, who had done a lot of work in a local village. Most of his work had been through an internationally recognized service organization called SERVIndia.

Ganesh showed Ryan and Joel around the village. They met with the villagers and even participated in a special festival that happened to be that day, including some folk dancing. Everyone had a great time, and Ryan and Joel left extremely thankful for the first-hand look at the village.

The next day, Ryan and Joel opened up their laptops to find an email from Ganesh thanking them for coming to the village. He attached 50 pictures he had taken of the event. In the mail trail, Joel noticed that Ganesh had put together a five-page bulletin about their visit for SERVIndia with the headline “SERVIndia welcomes FreshMedics to Village!” The bulletin had been sent to the national director of SERVIndia, who had already commended Ganesh for his excellent work in the matter. Ganesh had posted the photos on Facebook and tagged Ryan and Joel in all of them in an album titled “SERVIndia and FreshMedics partnering to uplift villages!” [Read more…]

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