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Neil Miller June 23, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Hinduism

5 Beliefs Most Hindus Would Agree With

Brightly colored Hindu Temples

You should approach this article with skepticism.

As we have said, while beliefs are an important component of religion, they are not the most important part about being a Hindu. A Hindu can reject nearly all the usual teachings of Hinduism and still confidently call herself a Hindu if she belongs to a Hindu community and performs the normal behaviors.

So, what do Hindus believe?

Hindu beliefs can be extremely diverse. Since Hinduism was formed as an amalgamation of several belief systems and not from one common source, it is very hard to identify some universal beliefs that apply to most Hindus.

So, you should cautiously approach anyone who says, “This is what Hindus believe.”

Instead of trying to give a full systematic theology for Hinduism (which doesn’t exist), I’ve pulled out five things that most Hindus will incorporate into their belief systems, as well as how they talk and act. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 16, 2014 Filed Under: #GreyIsWhite, #See1See100, Hinduism

The Most Important Term From Hinduism You Will Never Talk About

Dharma

“Hinduism is a way of life, not a religion.”

You will hear this phrase over and over as you learn about Hinduism. It is a very true statement, but what does “way of life” mean? Why does Hinduism get to claim to be outside of “religion”?  What makes it so different?

It really comes down to one word. One untranslatable word that most Hindus don’t regularly talk about, but creates the entire structure for their life and society.

 

The most important term you’ve never heard

Dharma comes from the root word dhr that can be translated as “uphold” or “sustain”, according to Indologist PV Kane (quoted in Dayanand Bharati’s Understanding Hinduism). In many ways, the concepts of dharma have been the “supports” for Hindu (and Indian) society for a long time. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 9, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Hinduism

Why you will probably stop learning about Hinduism

Cave Temple in India

 

It is a great idea on your part.

You are working with Indians or moving to India, and you want to be prepared. You want to be sensitive. So you start learning about the culture and decide you need to know something about Hinduism. “What is Hinduism?” you ask yourself.

You get online and browse around some websites. You order a book that looks good. Maybe you get really ambitious and try to read the Bhagavad Gita.

You are trying to dip your toe into the shallow end of the pool just to get a feel for what Hinduism is, and how learning about it will help you live and work better with India.

However, if you are like most of us, you will abandon this pretty quickly for one or more reasons:

 

  1. The content is way too philosophical. It tries to explain the difference between Vedanta and Mimamsa in the second chapter. It gets too deep too fast, and there is no frame of reference.
  2. The content is overly spiritualized. Everything seems to be about seeking the inner god in you, being a good person, etc. It strikes you more as “new age” than a multi-millennia religion.
  3. The content isn’t consistent. If you are comparing what you read from different sources, you notice large gaps and contradictory statements that make no sense when put together.
  4. It doesn’t match up with what you observe and experience in everyday life. The whole reason you wanted to learn what is Hinduism in the first place is to gain an insight into working with Hindus. However, more than 90% of what you learned is useless in conversation and understanding daily life.

There ends your short journey into learning about Hinduism.

 

I don’t claim to be an expert on Hinduism, but I think we are approaching it the wrong way. Trying to learn abstractly about Hinduism and then apply those lessons onto individuals will not help you. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 5, 2014 Filed Under: Mark Twain

Mark Twain on India: Why Fair Skin is Ugly

One of the constant oddities of living in India is the fair skin obsession. Despite the efforts of many campaigns, there seems to be no end to the tight hold of the message that fair skin = beauty.

The odd thing is not that the Indian media prefers one type of skin tone; it’s that it is the opposite skin tone I grew up associating with beauty. As much as Indian mothers don’t want their daughters out in the sun too much, people across the ocean are willingly laying in coffin-like structures to get rid of their fairness and make their skin look “healthy”.

But this strangeness is not a modern phenomenon. Let’s return back to hearing Mark Twain on India for his insights into comparing colors in India and abroad. This excerpt comes from when he was attending the coronation of a prince in Rajasthan. I’ve added bold text to my favorite quotes. [Read more…]

Neil Miller May 26, 2014 Filed Under: Book Reviews

Book Review: What’s This India Business?

What's This India Business Paul Davies

Paul Davies, Nicholas Brealey Publishing , 2004.

 

If you are one of those people who thinks all India does is customer support call center work, this book can really open your eyes to what is actually happening in India. It will show you the depth of services India is ready to provide, and will really broaden your mind…and it is ten years old.

If you have been actively engaging with India for the last several years, you might not get a lot out of this book. But if you are behind the times, this might be the perfect primer for preparing you for the world of Indian business. India is well beyond the services discussed in this book, but those services still make up a lot of its foundational business.
[Read more…]

Neil Miller May 19, 2014 Filed Under: #PowerPlays, Politics

10 Questions You Might Have Asked About the Indian Elections

Narendra_Modi_in_BJP_National_Executive_Meet_in_Goa

Here’s a recap of the largest democratic exercise in the history of humanity, also known as India’s national election.

 

What was this election?

This election was for Members of Parliament (MPs). Each voter had a list of candidates to choose from to represent his/her district.

 

I thought they were voting for a Prime Minister.

The Prime Minister is not an elected position. He/She is selected by the party or alliance that has a majority of seats in Parliament.

 

What is an alliance?

[Read more…]

Neil Miller May 15, 2014 Filed Under: #ChaosBeatsLogic, Into India

Things the average Indian is better than you at…

 

Indians dancing

Flickr: Tim Whelan

 

I started this list recently, but I figured it would be better if everyone contributed instead of just me. Please share some of your own ideas and I’ll add them!

Dancing – I have yet to meet a young Indian man who is not both willing and able to break into smooth dance moves at any moment of the day.

Singing in Public – Similarly, it takes very little coaxing to get any Indian aunty or uncle to break out in a classic film song.

Giving an impromptu one hour speech – No preparation, no notes, no slides. Just talking. I can’t make it more than 5 minutes.

Making children laugh and feel comfortable – Every Indian feels it is his/her duty as a citizen of the country to make every child within a 1 kilometer radius have a smile on their face. [Read more…]

Neil Miller May 12, 2014 Filed Under: #PowerPlays, Book Reviews

Book Review: Games Indians Play

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Games Indians Play: Why We Are The Way We Are

V Raghunathan

2006, Penguin.

 

Quick review:

This book has some good insights, but it is not for you.  

 

Details:

The author starts off the book with this soliloquy: [Read more…]

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