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Neil Miller September 20, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Indias By...

Indias By Gender

Continuing with the Indias By… series, we turn our attention to genders.

 

Men

Gents

EyalNow via Flickr

Let’s face it – it’s good to be a man in India.

Young boys (especially if they are only-sons) are often pampered and given as much freedom as possible. They have a lot of expectations on them during school, but a few rounds of cricket every weekend are highly encouraged. Around the house, the main responsibility is to eat well, study, and stay out of too much trouble.

College is the peak of the male experience in India. Very low responsibilities, very low commitments, very low financial burdens, and surrounded by other fun-loving guys. They will roam the streets in (mostly) harmless gangs, laughing and leaning on each other. Most Indian men have very tight bonds with their college classmates well through their adult lives. [Read more…]

Neil Miller September 2, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #See1See100, Into India

What you didn’t know about Arranged Marriages in India

Arranged Marriages

Even the term alone feels offensive to you. Oppressive. Undemocratic. Backwards.

Arranged marriages.

If you come from a country that values autonomy above everything else, it is unthinkable. Decades of media and Disney have drilled into us the evils of letting someone else make such an important choice for you.

So why do 65% of young Indians still prefer to have their parents arrange their marriages?

Why are 90% of all marriages in India still arranged?

Why have I already started to think about ‘alliances’ for my kids?

Maybe there is something we are missing… [Read more…]

Neil Miller August 13, 2014 Filed Under: Movie Reviews

Movies About India: Eat Pray Love Review

If modern Westerners could assign just one phrase to what India excels at, it would be spiritual enlightenment. Need to find answers? Need to find yourself? Need to take a break from the senselessness of the rat race? Come to India.

At some point in recent history, India cornered the market on spirituality. Perhaps starting with Vivekananda in the late 19th century, many Indian gurus have become famous on an international level. Their teachings were strikingly different from either the Protestant work ethic or traditional Catholic theology that had dominated Western concepts of spirituality for so long. Everything about Indian spirituality (and therefore India) seemed different, deeper, more mysterious, and perhaps better.

So, when someone sets off on a world tour and needs a stopover to help discover her ‘true self’, there is really only one option: India. [Read more…]

Neil Miller August 6, 2014 Filed Under: #ThinSkinned, Movie Reviews

Movies About India: Slumdog Millionaire Review

For the most part, India stayed out of mainstream Hollywood movies between 1985 and 2000.

During the same time period, India’s economy was changing forever. The economic liberalization laws of the early 1990s opened up India’s doors and paved the way for its gigantic economic climb. Anyone who has lived in a major metro will tell you that the India of the 1980s looked nothing like the India of the 2000s.

India was ready for a new identity. The dominant movie images of Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom no longer held any relevance (if they ever did). This was a new country, and it needed a new narrative to tell the world. They wanted something that showed how far they had come. They wanted a story to showcase how an entire class of New Indians had emerged.

They got Slumdog Millionaire. [Read more…]

Neil Miller July 28, 2014 Filed Under: #ThinSkinned, Movie Reviews

Movies About India: Octopussy Review

Continuing with Hollywood movies about India that educated the West, here is another from the early 1980’s.

Octopussy

Roger Moore and Vijay Amritraj

Statistics:

  • Release date: 10 June 1983
  • Box Office Revenue: $187 million
  • Ranking: #3 Worldwide for 1983, #6 in the US in 1983
  • Other top movies of 1983: Return of the Jedi, Scarface, Risky Business, Terms of Endearment

 

While the target audience for James Bond is quite large, the UK has always had a special relationship with India. They have built-in stereotypes that come from generations of eating Indian food and buying medicine from Indian pharmacists. (As opposed to Americans, who first need to be convinced that India actually exists.)

So would a film that features a British hero naturally be a better source of knowledge about India? We’ll see. [Read more…]

Neil Miller July 21, 2014 Filed Under: #ThinSkinned, Movie Reviews

Movies About India: Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom Review

“So this is where we learned about India.”

I had just returned to the US for a visit and decided to watch a movie during some downtime. I chose Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom because I vaguely remembered it being set in India. It was the first time I had seen it since I was six and my mother forced me to shut my eyes during the ‘heart removal’ scene. (Thanks, Mom.)

Watching it later in life, with a few years of living in India behind me, all sorts of things started to make sense. Stereotypes, generalizations, cultural attitudes – all nicely packaged in a blockbuster adventure.

One thing I am always amazed at is the lack of knowledge that people in the West have about ‘real’ India. Whether they see it as a land of snake charmers and turbans (1980s) or one big call center (2000s), these perceptions seem to stick. After watching Steven Spielberg’s movie, I figured out how they’ve gotten stuck in most of our minds.

So, I thought it would be fun to go back and analyze a few movies about India from the last forty years that have served as ‘educators of the masses’ for people who have never been to India. I’ve started with the big blockbusters that would have been seen by a majority of movie-watchers. [Read more…]

Neil Miller July 14, 2014 Filed Under: Daily Living, Into India, On the Job

How to Avoid Dying in India

Most people are not prepared for India.

No amount of reading, interviewing, or cultural training can really get you ready for working and living in India.

If you choose to dive in deeply, you will see the world from a brand new perspective. You will gain knowledge and experiences you could never get from any other place.

But you are also subject to feeling like you are just running from one “emergency” to another, constantly putting out fires. You may start to become entangled in the daily power struggles at work, or amongst your househelp. You may feel like most of your job has become apologizing for offending someone and can’t figure out why everyone seems so sensitive.

You could use some help. Not a solution for every problem, but a way to make sense of it all. An introduction to the new rules of this foreign land.

Enter How to Avoid Dying in India.

[Read more…]

Neil Miller June 30, 2014 Filed Under: Hinduism

6 Things Hindus Do, and which ones you can do too!

Rajasthani Woman

Paula Ray via Flickr

To close up this series of articles about Hinduism, we’ll turn our focus to the second most important component of religion for Hinduism – Hindu practices and behaviors.

Religious behaviors are actions that have no intrinsic meaning,  but rather ascribed meaning. For example, walking around with a white cap on your head has no meaning on its own. However, when you are in a Muslim neighborhood, it suddenly has a lot of meaning. Similarly, taking a sip of wine doesn’t mean much on its own, but it carries a lot of meaning in the context of a Catholic church.

In Hinduism, behaviors are the second most important component (after community and before beliefs). Doing the right thing is more important than believing the right thing, because doing a particular action shows you are part of a particular group.

For example, in a Hindu home, the mother is more concerned that her son visits a temple (behavior) than that he believes in the power of that deity. [Read more…]

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