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Neil Miller February 5, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #See1See100, #ThinSkinned, Daily Living, On the Job

What Indians Wish You Would Start and Stop Talking About

Mastering Small Talk in India

Small Talk Indians

In the West, small talk serves the same purpose as the kiddie side of a cold swimming pool. You wade in slowly, throwing around meaningless comments about the weather and sports until you reach an equilibrium and then dive in to the deep stuff.

Not so in India.

In India, small talk is an investigation. Your conversation partner is trying to piece together something about you. Who are your parents? What do they do? Where do you work? Where did you go to college? How many children do you have? What is your wife’s name? Do you have brothers and sisters?

These are not just polite conversation starters; these are interrogation questions.

Your Indian partner has two goals in this interrogation. [Read more…]

Neil Miller January 31, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Book Reviews

Book Review: Culture Shock! India

Culture Shock India Gitanjali Kolanad

Marshall Cavendish, 2012 (latest edition)

 

This book is in the Culture Shock! series of books that covers many different countries.

It is a good choice for someone with a very light understanding of India who is getting ready to spend a lot of time here. Its best quality is how comprehensive it is. It is partly a book about general Indian topics (e.g. food, festivals, family relationships) and partly advice for people coming to live in India (househelp, entertaining, communication). The information is about as accurate as you can be when speaking about such a large topic as India, though you should make sure to get the most updated edition (currently 2012). [Read more…]

Neil Miller January 25, 2014 Filed Under: #GreyIsWhite, #IndiasNotIndia, #See1See100, Daily Living

Getting Advice on India

Getting Advice on India

On your way to an Indian wedding and not sure if you brought the right gift?

Don’t know how to make it up to your colleague that you missed his son’s first birthday party because you booked a last-minute pleasure holiday to Goa?

There is really only one great way to get the best advice on India.

Ask an Indian.

Then ask a different Indian.

Reading articles (like this one) online, purchasing books on India, taking cross-cultural training courses, joining online expat forums, and many other options can be helpful, mostly in that they make you aware of everything you don’t know and offer some nice principles and guidelines.

However, India is nearly always different in practice than in theory. [Read more…]

Neil Miller January 23, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #See1See100, Indias By...

Indias By Religion

Religious Diversity in India

Note: This is the second in a series of “Indias by…”.  You can read the original Indias Not India post here.

Based on the title you may think this article will be a discussion about the varying spiritual beliefs in India.

Nope.

Dividing India up by religion has very little to do with anyone’s beliefs.  In fact, more than beliefs, religion in India is first about community and second about behaviors.

First, religion is about community. [Read more…]

Neil Miller January 21, 2014 Filed Under: #ChaosBeatsLogic, #IndiasNotIndia, Movie Reviews

Movie Review: Lagaan

LagaanOne of the most underdeveloped themes in Indian movies is sports.

Granted, as an American I have a bias towards sports obsession.  But given the inherent drama, heroism, and opportunities for large groups of men to get together and dance, it seems this genre could be an unending well for Indian filmmakers.

Of the relatively few Indian movies about sports, one stands out above the rest.  It is Hoosiers.  It is Miracle.  It is The Sandlot.  It is Lagaan.

How well does it fit the sports genre? [Read more…]

Neil Miller October 15, 2013 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #PowerPlays, Indias By...

Indias By Class: Economic Diversity of India

 

Economic Diversity of India

There are many ways to slice up Indian society.  You can know an Indian’s state, language, religion, community, and many other elements of their identity.

However, you won’t get very far in India until you understand the monumental economic diversity of India. Being able to classify the economic background of someone can often be one of the best ways to know how to interact with them and which rules apply to them.  People from different economic strata lead completely different lives, have completely different experiences, and represent completely different people groups in India.

Talking about these differences takes a certain amount of sensitivity.  In 2002, the Strategic Foresight Group published a report that divides the Indian economy into 3 sections: Business Class economy (2% of the population), Bike economy (15%), and Bullock cart economy (83%).  The report talks about the different states of India and which states represent which economies.

These terms give a useful starting place for understanding this issue, but 1.) Things have changed since 2002, and 2.) These terms work much better for individuals than entire states.

Below are four strata of the Indian economy, using terms that are both immediately understandable and as accurate as possible when you are trying to fit 1.2 billion people into four neat categories.  Unlike other distinctions, these categories are much more about individual mindset than about specific income levels.  In fact, the different groups may overlap each other if seen on a wealth distribution scale.  Most people you know will probably fall in between categories or are moving from one to another.

1.) Majority Indians – These are the 65% of the country (or more), who under the new definitions of the government (Rs. 62 in expenses per day in cities, Rs. 50 in villages) are considered in poverty.  In US dollars, that is surviving on spending $1 per day.  In this category, we’ve made the unfortunate, but conceptually necessary move of lumping together the urban poor and villagers, although their lives can be extremely different.  Upon Majority Indians’ backs India has been built, fed, and housed.

Unfortunately, they tend to blend into the scenery of most of our experiences in India – the slums that become part of the everyday commute, the countless villages you will never visit, the mass of people who form the foundation for the Indian economy.

About this, economist and Nobel laureate Amartya Sen comments:

“There is, for example, nothing false about Indian poverty, nor about the fact – remarkable to others – that Indians have learned to live normal lives while taking little notice of the surrounding misery.” Argumentative Indian, 127.

 

2.) Classic Indians – If an Indian ever tells you they came from a “middle class” family, this is what they are talking about.  Father was a government worker/bank employee.  Mother was a school teacher/homemaker.  They save most of their money, live in joint families, and try to send their son to study engineering.   They can be auto rickshaw drivers all the way to mid-level managers in family owned Indian companies.  As the name says, these people make up the classic version of what most westerners think of when they picture the stereotypical Indian.

3.) New Indians – This is a phenomenon and a class that has emerged over the last 20-30 years.  They work for multinationals or started their own companies in the tech boom of the 1990s.  Their purchasing power has drastically increased compared to their families.  They move around India where their work takes them, but also may have other aspirations of really making it big and working abroad.  These people have family and cousins living and working in Europe, the Gulf, or the US, and can reasonably save up for a visit every few years.  They can also potentially afford to send their children abroad for higher studies if they wish.  This class of Indian is the face of the New India and the one that India wants the world to remember.

Being a New Indian is much more a mindset and a modern phenomenon than an economic class.  There are young graduates making Rs. 15,000 per month who would be in this category as well as dollar millionaires.  Being a New Indian is about adopting a much more “international” lifestyle in terms of taste and preference.  They maintain most of the core Indian values, but have shed at least a few things the Classic Indians hold onto, such as traditional dress, music taste, or spending habits.

4.) Wealthy Indians – These are families who have owned companies and land for generations and have been the barons of their cities and industries for decades.  They can afford to spend as much as they wish and travel frequently.  They buy one of the nearly one hundred Rolls Royces sold every year in India or might settle for one of the 10,000 Audis sold in a year.  They make up their own class because these people have earned not only wealth, but also power and can mostly do what they please.  Politicians, land-owners, heads of companies, their names are well-known and they travel in large and well-defined social circles.

Wealthy Indians might also be international in their views, but their values and behaviours might more closely resemble Classic Indians, such as living in extended families, vegetarianism, and arranging marriages for their children. Their rise to wealth likely happened before the major influx of western culture that began in the 1990s.

 

Wealth Distribution

Wealth distribution is as much a problem in India as in most countries.  However, according to a recent study from Credit Suisse, India has a more equal wealth distribution than Canada, Singapore, the UK, Russia, France, Sweden, Brazil, Switzerland and the US.  Comparing countries of vastly different sizes and cultures around a topic like wealth can be impossible and misleading in some ways, but this report at least shows that it is a global phenomenon and not unique to India.

That said, the disparities between groups are great.  India has more “poor” people than any other country on the planet.  CEOs in India are nearly paid nearly the same as in Europe and the US, but most other workers earn a small fraction of their foreign peers.  In the 1990s, the top 10% of wage earners earned 6 times the bottom 10%.  In 2010, the rich made 12 times more than the poor.

Here is an image from the National Council for Applied Economic Research from their study done in 2010, showing the breakdown of broad economic wealth distribution.

Indian Income Pyramid

Different Rules for Different Classes

As mentioned above, knowing the basic economic category someone comes from is helpful to know what social rules apply to them.  For example, let’s talk about visiting someone’s home:

There is very little chance you will ever visit the home of a Majority Indian (odds are you are probably paying your maid well enough to be considered a Classic Indian).  And it’s not a good idea to visit their home without thinking through the longer term effects that would be put on them for having a rich foreigner visit.  If you get to visit a village home, you would most likely end up meeting the entire village as everyone would come out to meet you.  For gifts, keep things very simple and useful: sweets, fruit, simple toys for children.

If you visit a Classic Indian, you are likely to meet three generations living together in a modest, simple residence.   Remove your shoes before entering and greet everyone simply and politely.  Be very respectful in your tone and you may need to speak slowly for older generations.  The best gift is a box of Indian sweets, fruit, or something simple from your home.

If you visit a New Indian, you are likely to find them living in a nuclear family with their children.  Check to see if they have shoes on or not.  You can take a much more relaxed tone with them in your speech and actions.  For gifts, you can bring a nice piece of home decor, music you enjoy, a box of foreign chocolate, or maybe even wine.  (You would never assume to bring alcohol to a Classic Indian household even if you had some drinks with him at a bar earlier.  Brining alcohol into the home can still be taboo and you don’t want to get anyone in trouble.)

If you visit a Wealthy Indian, it might be an extended family again, but they will also have a fleet of nice cars in the garage. Again, check for shoes, but they may be very used to foreign guests and won’t mind either way.  Some foreign whisky or large flower bouquet might make a nice gift (check first to see if they are teetotalers).

Different groups, different environments, different rules.

Mixing Classes

As mentioned, many of the people you will come to know may straddle these categories.  The largest area of transition is between the Classic Indian and the New Indian.  Many families are making that transition now, which provides the film industries with an endless amount of dramatic storylines.   Unfortunately, Majority Indians often make up a whole sub-country whose interactions with the rest of India are quite limited.

Despite there being a lot of overlap, each group is very distinct and you will find it fairly easy to categorize the people you meet.

Aside from rules about visiting a home, giving gifts, and alcohol, the economic class of an Indian can affect:

  • Small Talk Topics
  • What their weddings look like
  • What clothes they like to wear
  • What food they like to eat
  • What kind of leadership style they prefer in the office
  • The kind of movies they watch

 

More Indias here

Photo Credit: rabanito on Flickr

Neil Miller October 8, 2013 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #ThinSkinned, Book Reviews

The Argumentative Indian

 Argumentative Indian

Penguin, 2005.

The Argumentative Indian is a great read for those interested in a more critical and deeper look at modern India.  Amartya Sen is a Nobel Prize winner in Economics in 1998 and a professor at Harvard.  His writing is obviously enlightened, but he writes with a passion for his home country that is directed at important contemporary issues.

The book consists of 16 different essays written by Sen over several years.  The essays range in topic from defining and defending Indian secularism, taking a critical look at the Hindutva movement, examining the Indian diaspora, and discussing gender challenges in modern India.  After reading this book, you will have a great broad perspective of the most important issues that dominate much of present-day India.

Here are a few key concepts that I got from this book:

  • The unique Indian view of defining secularism as being neutral to all religions as opposed to prohibiting religious expressions in the public realm
  • A repeated call for outsiders to understand that one’s religion is more about community identity than personal religious beliefs. #IndiasNotIndia
  • A celebration of India’s historic rulers, particularly Akbar.  Akbar comes up several times in the book, especially for his attempts at treating all religions equally and creating a religiously neutral government.
  • The deep historical contributions made by early Indian scientists which were far in advance of their western counterparts (like Aryabhata)
  • Sen’s interpretation of the #ThinSkinned Indian as being put down by ignorant English writers and bureaucrats.  He says that India was driven to settle on “spirituality” as an area of authority because they were told their achievements in other realms were largely inconsequential. (Sen is a thorough secularist and atheist if you couldn’t guess.)

Sen, who himself is a Bengali, dedicates one essay each to two of West Bengal’s most well-known creators: Rabindranath Tagore and Satyajit Ray.  Tagore is perhaps India’s most celebrated poet and the author of the Indian national anthem.  Satyajit Ray is a filmmaker whose films still carry a lot of power and influence.  Anyone interacting with Bengalis would benefit from these short introductions to two incredible men.

The Argumentative India probably should not be the very first book you read about India, but it is well worth the time.  Slightly academic, but very practical, this book will help you dig deeper in your understanding of India.

Who would like it: People with a basic understanding and experience with India.

 

Buy the Argumentative Indian on  Amazon.in, Amazon.com, or Kindle

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