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Neil Miller June 23, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Hinduism

5 Beliefs Most Hindus Would Agree With

Brightly colored Hindu Temples

You should approach this article with skepticism.

As we have said, while beliefs are an important component of religion, they are not the most important part about being a Hindu. A Hindu can reject nearly all the usual teachings of Hinduism and still confidently call herself a Hindu if she belongs to a Hindu community and performs the normal behaviors.

So, what do Hindus believe?

Hindu beliefs can be extremely diverse. Since Hinduism was formed as an amalgamation of several belief systems and not from one common source, it is very hard to identify some universal beliefs that apply to most Hindus.

So, you should cautiously approach anyone who says, “This is what Hindus believe.”

Instead of trying to give a full systematic theology for Hinduism (which doesn’t exist), I’ve pulled out five things that most Hindus will incorporate into their belief systems, as well as how they talk and act. [Read more…]

Neil Miller June 9, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Hinduism

Why you will probably stop learning about Hinduism

Cave Temple in India

 

It is a great idea on your part.

You are working with Indians or moving to India, and you want to be prepared. You want to be sensitive. So you start learning about the culture and decide you need to know something about Hinduism. “What is Hinduism?” you ask yourself.

You get online and browse around some websites. You order a book that looks good. Maybe you get really ambitious and try to read the Bhagavad Gita.

You are trying to dip your toe into the shallow end of the pool just to get a feel for what Hinduism is, and how learning about it will help you live and work better with India.

However, if you are like most of us, you will abandon this pretty quickly for one or more reasons:

 

  1. The content is way too philosophical. It tries to explain the difference between Vedanta and Mimamsa in the second chapter. It gets too deep too fast, and there is no frame of reference.
  2. The content is overly spiritualized. Everything seems to be about seeking the inner god in you, being a good person, etc. It strikes you more as “new age” than a multi-millennia religion.
  3. The content isn’t consistent. If you are comparing what you read from different sources, you notice large gaps and contradictory statements that make no sense when put together.
  4. It doesn’t match up with what you observe and experience in everyday life. The whole reason you wanted to learn what is Hinduism in the first place is to gain an insight into working with Hindus. However, more than 90% of what you learned is useless in conversation and understanding daily life.

There ends your short journey into learning about Hinduism.

 

I don’t claim to be an expert on Hinduism, but I think we are approaching it the wrong way. Trying to learn abstractly about Hinduism and then apply those lessons onto individuals will not help you. [Read more…]

Neil Miller May 1, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Into India

States of India Song

It was a moment of inspiration.

I was trying to calm my nerves the morning before one of my first big training sessions in front of Indians. As I looked over my notes, I came to the part where I would quiz participants on how many states there are in India. (You don’t usually get a uniform answer for this one from Indians.)

Then I started thinking, What if they challenge me? What if they demand to see a list? I can only name about five states off the top of my head!

It was too late to get something printed. To add to it, this was the first training I had done for this company and one of my bosses was going to be there in the session. I had to think of something fast.

Ok, I’ll memorize them.

Seriously? You’ll memorize 28 state names in 30 minutes?

Yup, and I’ll even do it alphabetically. [Read more…]

Neil Miller April 18, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #ThinSkinned, Cultural Adaptation

Why You Should Embrace Cultural Generalizations, Not Stereotypes

Generalizations Mongo Gushi

Everyone loves to hate generalizations. In fact, they might be the easiest target for the cross-cultural police, who think everyone is the same (deep down), and everyone is unique (deep down).

This kind of thinking might work in some cultures, but won’t last five minutes in India. As soon as you get here, you start making generalizations because it is so “other”, and you don’t have a mental category for what you are experiencing.

But in a country filled with so many sensitive paradoxes, nothing will get you into trouble faster than making a blanket generalization (#Thinskinned).

This is the tension you face as you try to make sense of the new world you are working/living with. What are you allowed to say? What is true? Don’t all generalizations break down anyway? Should we just abandon them altogether?

No. Generalizations have a lot to offer us.

[Read more…]

Neil Miller April 14, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #ThinSkinned, Indias By...

Indias By Region

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If you want to start a lively and quickly tense discussion among Indians, have them start talking about regional differences.

Along with religion, this is a highly sensitive topic that is guaranteed to get lunch tables and chat rooms flowing with all sorts of interesting comments. Coming in as an outsider, it is important for you to build some awareness of the different regions, and what they think of each other.

There are no set boundaries for the regions of India, nor are there a set number of them. Some will say anything below Mumbai is South India and everything above it is North India. Others say there is a North, South, East, and West India.

For the sake of discussion, I will use six regions, adding Central and Northeast India to the above list.

Here are some necessary disclaimers, as this article is likely to offend someone: (#ThinSkinned)

  • I’ve opted to use entire states to talk about regions (with a few exceptions), but the regions are undoubtedly more porous than that, and these regions are not universally accepted.
  • I’ve added a section on *generalizations of the different regions. This is not to promote, justify, or validate the generalizations, but to inform you about what Indians think of each other.
  • Indians feel passionate about these things and are comfortable talking about them with each other, but not always with foreigners, so be sensitive about bringing it up in conversation.
  • I’ve spent most of my time in the south, and the comments about other regions are more anecdotal or researched.
  • Keep in mind the other divisions of India (class, rural vs. urban, age) that are also at play. What is true about an urban Dehliite might not be true of the mountain people in Himachal Pradesh, even though both are in North India.
  • Let’s make this a dynamic document. If you feel you have some useful (but not derogatory) insights to share about a particular area, please leave them in the comments and I will add them to the article.

 

[*Editor’s Note: I changed this term from “stereotypes” to better reflect the view of this article on generalizations and stereotypes]

 

Away we go…
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Neil Miller April 7, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Book Reviews

Book Review: Two States

2_States_-_The_Story_Of_My_Marriage

If you interact at all with 20-30 year olds in India, you should minimally be aware of who Chetan Bhagat is. He is a famous author whose books about call centers and Indian education systems (and cheaply priced books) really found a huge market among millennials in India.

Some people find his writing style too elementary and complain that his approach to issues is too juvenile, but his appeal is massive, and his books are easy to read. Two States is one of his better books, in my opinion. [Read more…]

Neil Miller March 7, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, #See1See100, Book Reviews, On the Job

Book Review: Speaking of India

Speaking of India, by Craig Storti, 2007.

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Speaking of India remains one of the better guides out there for people in the business world interacting with India. Craig Storti has given us some great paradigms and concepts to help cultures work together better. This book is quick to read and should be on your shelf if you regularly interact with India.

Personally, Storti’s writings provided my foundation for understanding concepts like indirect and direct speech and how communication styles can differ across cultures. I owe a lot of my understanding to his ability to clearly talk about the issues at place and some strategies for solving them.

[Read more…]

Neil Miller February 26, 2014 Filed Under: #IndiasNotIndia, Transportation

How to Get to Another City: Transportation in India

Now that you have figured out how to get around your city, it’s time to expand your horizons! Traveling around India is fun and guaranteed to give you a great story. Just by traveling as few as 200 km away, you might find yourself in what seems like a whole new country! #IndiasNotIndia

You have four main options to get to a different city (unless you plan on getting there on your own):

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